White elephant gift exchange

Etymology

The term white elephant refers to an extravagant, impractical gift that cannot be easily disposed of. The phrase is said to come from a perspective about the historic practice of the King of Siam (now Thailand) giving rare albino elephants to courtiers who had displeased him, so that they might be ruined by the animals' upkeep costs. However, there is no actual record of the King giving a white elephant specifically to burden the recipients, and white elephants are considered to be highly valuable and sacred in Thai culture, so much that any white elephant that is found must immediately be brought to the King according to his legal ownership. The first use of this term remains a matter of contention among historians.

Rules

Each participant supplies one wrapped gift, usually of similar value. The gifts are placed in a central location and the participants select a gift in a fixed order, often determined by numbers randomly drawn prior to the start of the game. The first person opens a wrapped gift and the turn ends. On subsequent turns, each person has the choice to either unwrap a new present or to steal another's. When a person's gift is stolen, that person can either choose another wrapped gift to open or can steal from another player. Each gift can only be stolen a specified number of times per game, commonly two, after that the holder of the gift keeps it. The game is over when everyone has a present. At the endaccording to some variationsthe first player is allowed to swap his or her gift by stealing someone else's gift, even a gift that is out of play.

Explanatory notes

References

References

1. Pakditawan, Sirinya. (2017-11-12). "White elephant in Thai culture, highly auspicious and symbols of royal power".
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