Object sexuality

Research

In 2009, Amy Marsh, a clinical sexologist, surveyed the twenty-one English-speaking members of Erika Eiffel's 40-member OS Internationale group about their experiences. About half reported autism spectrum disorders: six had been diagnosed, four were affected but not diagnosed, and three of the remaining nine reported having "some traits." According to Marsh, "The emotions and experiences reported by OS people correspond to general definitions of sexual orientation," such as that in an APA article "on sexual orientation and homosexuality ... [which] refers to sexual orientation as involving 'feelings and self-concept.

The first empirical behavioural study was conducted in 2019 by neuropsychologist Julia Simner and her colleagues. Their data suggests that objectophilia is likely to arise when two separate neurodevelopmental traits co-occur: autism and synaesthesia. Rates of diagnosed autism were up to 30 times higher in their objectophile group, particularly linked to differences in social skills (finding human social situations unenjoyable). At the same time, the objectophile group were 14 times more likely to have synaesthesia. This included the variant known as personification synaesthesia, which makes inanimate objects feel imbued with personalities or genders (due to neurodevelopmental differences in regions of the brain involved in social processing). The researchers concluded that OS often encapsulates autism and synaesthesia within its phenomenology, and they also discussed society's marginalization of objectophiles.

Sociolinguistic researcher Heiko Motschenbacher has developed the concept of humanonormativity to describe the marginalization of objectum sexuality. Humanonormativity is "the belief that people normally and naturally engage in sexual practices and romantic relationships with other human beings." It arises as a discourse that pathologizes objectum sexuality. This concept has been referenced in relevant academic fields, including research on fictosexuality.

OS awareness and advocacy

In 2009, Erika Eiffel appeared on Good Morning America with Amy Marsh to discuss her "marriage" to the Eiffel Tower and how her object love helped her become a world champion archer. Marsh shared the results of her survey and her belief that OS could be a genuine sexual orientation, reasoning that if childhood trauma were a factor in being OS, there would be more OS individuals. Eiffel, who had adopted her surname after a 2007 "marriage" to the Eiffel Tower, founded OS Internationale, an educational website and online community for those identifying or researching attraction to objects.

Literature

Marsh sees OS-like behavior in classic literature. In Victor Hugo's 1831 novel The Hunchback of Notre-Dame:

Claude Frollo had made him the bell ringer of Notre-Dame, and to give the great bell in marriage to Quasimodo was to give Juliet to Romeo.}}

Describing his passion for sculptures, Horace Walpole commented in 1791 that "Sir William Hamilton had actually married his Gallery of Statues".

Kate Folk’s 2025 experimental debut novel Sky Daddy follows Linda, a woman convinced she and her soulmate, a commercial jet plane, will marry one day, that is, be united in death via crash. With the aid of a domino-sized 737 fragment, she is aroused during takeoff and turbulence (the latter of which she interprets as a sign of a plane’s affection), as well as when watching simulations of aeronautic disasters.

In popular culture

Real life

• In 1979, a Swedish woman married the Berlin Wall.
• In 2007, Erika Eiffel married the Eiffel Tower.
• In 2010, Woman's Day magazine listed ten romances between people and things, including the Berlin Wall, a fairground ride, a dakimakura, a Volkswagen Beetle, the World Trade Center, a steam locomotive, an iBook, and a metal processing system.
• A March 2012 segment of TLC's My Strange Addiction featured Nathaniel, a man emotionally and sexually attracted to his car. Nathaniel told Anderson Cooper that he was also attracted to jet skis and airplanes.
• In 2013, an Australian woman, Jodi Rose, married the Le Pont du Diable Bridge in France.
• In 2016, an American man was refused permission to marry his computer.

Music

• Keys N Krates's video for the song "Save Me", featuring Katy B, focuses on this particular sexuality.
• Ninajirachi's song "Fuck My Computer" from her debut album I Love My Computer describes her desire to have sex with her computer.

Film

• *Christine *(1983) tells the story of a young man and his obsession with his sentient car.
• Jumbo (2020) tells the story of a cleaner at an amusement park who falls in love with a fairground ride. Zoé Wittock, the director, took her inspiration from the experience of Erika Eiffel.
• Titane (2021) tells the story of a female serial killer who becomes pregnant after a sexual encounter with a car.

Television

• Australian Netflix series Lunatics (2019) features a character named Keith Dick (played by Chris Lilley), a fashion designer who falls for "Karen", a Sharp XE-A203 cash register, as well as an old fashioned vacuum cleaner.

Video games

• Date Everything! (2025) allows the player to form relationships with anthropomorphized versions of inanimate objects in their house.

References

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