Margaret Wotton, Marchioness of Dorset

Family

Margaret was born in 1485, the daughter of Robert Wotton of Boughton Malherbe, Kent, and Anne Belknap, daughter of Henry Belknap, and sister of Edward Belknap, Two of her brothers held important positions in the government. Edward Wotton was Treasurer of Calais, and Nicholas Wotton was a diplomat who arranged the marriage of Henry VIII to Anne of Cleves in 1539.

Marriages and issue

In 1505, Wotton married her first husband, William Medley, by whom she had one son, George (died 1562). In 1509, sometime after the death of her husband in February of that year, she married as his second wife, Thomas Grey, 2nd Marquess of Dorset, the eldest son of Thomas Grey, 1st Marquess of Dorset by Cecily Bonville, Baroness Harington and Bonville. She was styled Marchioness of Dorset upon her marriage.

By her second husband, Wotton had four sons and four daughters:

• Elizabeth Grey (1510–1564), who married first Thomas Audley, 1st Baron Audley of Walden and second George Norton.
• Katherine Grey (1512 – 1 May 1542), who married Henry Fitzalan, 19th Earl of Arundel.
• Anne Grey (died 1548), who married Henry Willoughby (slain 27 August 1549 during Kett's Rebellion) of Wollaton, Nottinghamshire.
• Henry Grey, 1st Duke of Suffolk (12 January 1517 – 23 February 1554), who married Lady Frances Brandon.
• Lord John Grey of Pirgo (1523 – 19 November 1564) married Mary Browne, daughter of Anthony Browne sometime before 1547.
• Lord Thomas Grey (1526 – after 1554), who was executed together with his brother, Henry, for having participated in Thomas Wyatt's rebellion in 1554..
• Leonard Grey.
• Mary Grey.

Wotton and her husband were part of the group who accompanied Henry VIII's sister, Princess Mary, to France in the autumn of 1514, for the latter's wedding to King Louis XII of France.

In October 1530, her husband died, and Wotton was given custody of all his property during their eldest son, Henry's minority.

On 10 September 1533 at Greenwich Palace, Wotton stood as one of the two godmothers of Princess Elizabeth, daughter of Henry VIII and Anne Boleyn, who would later rule as Queen Elizabeth I of England. Three months earlier, on 1 June, Margaret had ridden in Anne Boleyn's coronation procession from the Tower of London to Westminster Abbey.

Wotton was the subject of two portraits by Hans Holbein the Younger.

Quarrels with her son

Wotton first began a long series of quarrels with her son, who had succeeded to the Marquessate of Dorset in 1530, when he was forced to pay a fine of £4000 for breach of contract after he had renounced his betrothal to Katherine Fitzalan, daughter of the Earl of Arundel. As a result, she tried to restrict his allowance throughout his minority, which caused much consternation from her peers, who labelled her actions "unmotherly", and inappropriate behaviour towards a nobleman closely related to the King. Margaret only agreed to Henry's marriage with Lady Frances Brandon, niece of the King, on the condition that her father, Charles Brandon, 1st Duke of Suffolk, would support the couple until her son reached his majority.

In 1534, Wotton felt compelled to answer charges that she was "an unnatural mother". As a result, she offered to contribute to her son's advancement "as my small power is and shall be".

Several years later when he came of age, Henry brought his quarrel with his mother before the Kings' Council, where Wotton belatedly admitted that her son's allowance was not "meet or sufficient to maintain his estate", and she offered to increase it. Henry was not appeased, therefore she moved out of the Grey family seat at Bradgate House; however, Henry would not let her remove her personal property, so she wrote a letter to Thomas Cromwell, pleading with him to order her son to release her goods.

It is most likely Wotton died in the 1540s, and some sources suggest she died in 1541.

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References

1. Half 1st cousin once-removed
2. Harris, Barbara Jean. ''English Aristocratic Women 1450 – 1550: Marriage and Family; Property and Careers''. p. 115. Google Books. Retrieved 4 January 2011.
3. De Lisle states that she predeceased her husband by 18 months.
4. {{Harvnb. Richardson I. 2011. Richardson II. 2011. De Lisle. 2008
5. Collin's Peerage of England, published 1812: ... a tomb in the chapel of the mansion house at Pirgo in Essex; on which was a knight kneeling with four sons, his lady kneeling with four daughters, and many coats and quarterings; and bearing on the verge this inscription: "''Here under lyeth buried the lorde John ... Grey, Knyght (fourth son of) the lorde Thomas Grey mar ..... ques Dorcet, who dyed the xix daye of November 1564; and dame Mary his wyfe, daughter of Sir Anthony Browne, Knyght of the Garter, m(aster)r of the horse, and con'seler to Kynge Henry ye VIII. Dame Mary dyed....''".
6. [[Barbara Jean Harris]], ''English Aristocratic Women 1450–1550: Marriage and Family; Property and Careers'', p.115, [[Google Books]]. Retrieved 21-11-09
7. Lucy Aikin, ''Memoirs of the Court of Queen Elizabeth, Volume 1'', p.9. Retrieved 21-11-09
8. Harris, p.115
9. Harris, p. 115
10. Harris, p. 116
11. "House of Grey: Mothers and Sons". Tudor Times.
12. "Margaret Wotton (m. Dorset)". Tudor Place.